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My so-called FRIENDS!

 that picture you're looking right now are all my friends..... wahhhh....pamati!!! no im just kidding, (wala na kasing maisip na image na ipost!) ... they are just an image...the image of MY SO-CALLED FRIENDS!!

 what is friend by the way??! is it an intelligence? a toy? a clown? a feeling? a love? a money? or a shoulder and hands?

in some books, authors, even in the the internet they usually define friend as the following:

friend:

• Definition: a person you know well and regard with affection and trust.
• A paramour of either sex.
• One not inimical or hostile; one not a foe or enemy; also, one of the same nation, party, kin, etc., whose friendly feelings may be assumed.
•  One who looks propitiously on a cause, an institution, a project, and the like; a favorer; a promoter; as, a friend to commerce, to poetry, to an institution.

well lets go back to our topic my so-called friends!

maybe i can  consider myself as a happy and lucky person! well maybe it's all because i have a lot of friends, with different personality,motives,goal,and likes but we are only one in HEARTS!

FRIEND.....

1. is it an intelligence? there are people that they only make friends to those who are intelligent or bright! but i come to think of it, am i a genius? but i can say only to myself that im not..coz im just an ordinary person, an ordinary student...so why is it they become my friends? are they not the kind of people that will look only for an intelligent friend? 
2. Is it a toy? there were an instances also that many people are "gusto-dili", that sometimes they will like their friends and sometimes they would hate them. just like a boy playing with a toy, when  his toy is new he will like it so much and play with it all day long, but once you he will feel that the toy seems to be old and boring he will be looking or asking for another toy which is new to him. So in that case, are my friends are like that? are they really do/did that to me? maybe my friends will be like that or not either.
3. is it a clown? many people also will like also to have friend who has sense of humor! they are the friends who are "mga sipat", like a clown that keeps you laughing. so is it what we call friends? if so, maybe my friends are like..or maybe  my friends find me seem to be so funny. so that makes sense, could i consider them as my friends?
4. a feeling? maybe its a feeling that would dictate you to befriend with that people, a feeling that you will not expect to to feel and be happened. isn't it what we call friend? so maybe my friends feel that way! so that now they become my friends! isn't it like that?
5. a love? a friend will be sometimes be compared to love, because if  you like or love the peson you want him to be your friend! and sometimes friend will fall into love! so is it  love is  what we call friend? are my friends love me? or they love me because they are my friends or i'm their friend because they love me? maybe yes maybe not!
6. a pet? some people would make a friend to the person who is to be trusted of and loyal! just like your pet, once your pet feels comfortable with you  and they feel your care,as a return they will love you ,a love of a real  and loyal friend! so in that case, if they are my pets and i care and love them as i care and love my self, did/do they cherish my care and love, as a return for me? are they become loyal to me? maybe some of them are yes or maybe few are no! so can i call them my friends just like my pets?
7. a money? there are some people also that they will only make  friend to those who are rich or lots of money! they are a kind of friends that are fun of gimik, party, or "maikpagsosyal!"..... sometimes they will be judged either good or a bad friends! they are sometimes called as "golden leech"....if you know what does golden leech mean?! So  in that case, are these kind of golden leech friends are like the friends i have  now? but as observed, i cannot consider myself as rich..not even once! even i have a friends who are fun of gimik..but still they become good friends of mine! 
8. and the last but not the least! a shoulder and hands? they are the friends who are so passionate and have affection for their friends. they will feel the same way of what you have felt. they are the friends to be your"crying shoulder" a hands you may hold on to, in times of difficulty,circumstances,trials and problems! they are real, always by your side, they are the friends that you can call when you are alone in the dark! So are these qualities of friends being mentioned above, are the qualities possess by my friends i have now? can they be my shoulder and hands? can i lean on their shoulder whenever im tired,dppress, and crying!

> some can be true, some can be denied, some can be in vain, some can be falsified, and some can be accepted! whatever you call for it, whatever you name to it whatever meaning you give to it, friends are anybody! friends are everywhere!  friends can be love, they can be our worst enemy even, and friends will be your souls............. no matter what happens,no matter who are they......

it only matters that............................ THEY ARE MY SO-CALLED FRIENDS!!! whenever!forever!

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What's With My Name???

by the way to those who do not know me yet my name is Jig never mind  my surname!

so now, you know me already............

"ahhmm...wa-what?? can you repeat your question ?...ahhhh... o-ok,ok...i get it!"

ahmm, sombody asks me about," whats with my name?"

so here it is...

actually, i really asked my mother about my name, of why she chose the name Jig as my legal name, take note,"legal"...which is too short to mention. so this was the answer of my mother:

  " once upon a time, when your mother son was still young and single, I once fell inlove with a guy and this guy whom i fell inlove with was so sweet,kind,respectfull,and of course handsome (pero walay makalabaw sa imong amahan! basi magselos). this guy liked me too, but during that time i was  being so "pakiput" you know naman son"dalagang bukid"! then we were both in good company though,we were still in the stage of  what so-called as "friend,friend!" no more,no less!  but one day i was so shock and regretfull.. you know why son? i found out that he already had a girlfriend..he hurted me so much although we dont have any commitment.. but still, it hurts you know! but i realized that we were not meant for each other! until, i met your father! (namawi si mama)... you know what son his name is  tattarantaran! JIGO! (kaya pala!) so in order to remember him,since he was still  part of the history of my love affairs....so i got the origin of your name from him..(naku si mama talaga! buti di nagselos si papa)...... no!no! your father was the one who chose that name for you! hehehe! because i told him about that guy! since you are our last offspring, maybe he was being forced to give that name.... JIG! nevertheless, we have another reason why we have chosen the name jig so that you wii have no difficulty in writing your name when you will be engaged to school..(may gani naa pay laing reason).....so nak thats all about the history of your name!!!"

...so now! you've learned and known about the background of my name...that somewhat kind of teleserye...may history pa talaga!..

oh my NAME! MY NAME!..... my name also will be found in the dictionary, JIG which means: 
a. Any of various lively dances in triple time.
b. The music for such a dance. Also called gigue.
2. A joke or trick. Used chiefly in the phrase The jig is up.

i dont know why the meaning of my name goes like that... kadiri ko ngang sumayaw!hehehe..

but in general! I really like my name..hehehe.... JIG

SUMMARY:

• JIG COMES FROM THE NAME AFTER JIGO, THE GUY WHOM MY MOTHER FELL INLOVE WITH, BUT ITOY NAUDLOT NA PAG-IBIG!!!

• MY PARENTS CHOSE THIS NAME SO THAT I CAN WRITE IT EASILY AND RAPIDLY! 

• MY NAME WILL BE FOUND IN THE DICTIONARY MEANING THE MUSIC FOR SUCH A DANCE.