that picture you're looking right now are all my friends..... wahhhh....pamati!!! no im just kidding, (wala na kasing maisip na image na ipost!) ... they are just an image...the image of MY SO-CALLED FRIENDS!!
what is friend by the way??! is it an intelligence? a toy? a clown? a feeling? a love? a money? or a shoulder and hands?
in some books, authors, even in the the internet they usually define friend as the following:
friend:
- Definition: a person you know well and regard with affection and trust.
- A paramour of either sex.
- One not inimical or hostile; one not a foe or enemy; also, one of the same nation, party, kin, etc., whose friendly feelings may be assumed.
- One who looks propitiously on a cause, an institution, a project, and the like; a favorer; a promoter; as, a friend to commerce, to poetry, to an institution.
well lets go back to our topic my so-called friends!
maybe i can consider myself as a happy and lucky person! well maybe it's all because i have a lot of friends, with different personality,motives,goal,and likes but we are only one in HEARTS!
FRIEND.....
- is it an intelligence? there are people that they only make friends to those who are intelligent or bright! but i come to think of it, am i a genius? but i can say only to myself that im not..coz im just an ordinary person, an ordinary student...so why is it they become my friends? are they not the kind of people that will look only for an intelligent friend?
- Is it a toy? there were an instances also that many people are "gusto-dili", that sometimes they will like their friends and sometimes they would hate them. just like a boy playing with a toy, when his toy is new he will like it so much and play with it all day long, but once you he will feel that the toy seems to be old and boring he will be looking or asking for another toy which is new to him. So in that case, are my friends are like that? are they really do/did that to me? maybe my friends will be like that or not either.
- is it a clown? many people also will like also to have friend who has sense of humor! they are the friends who are "mga sipat", like a clown that keeps you laughing. so is it what we call friends? if so, maybe my friends are like..or maybe my friends find me seem to be so funny. so that makes sense, could i consider them as my friends?
- a feeling? maybe its a feeling that would dictate you to befriend with that people, a feeling that you will not expect to to feel and be happened. isn't it what we call friend? so maybe my friends feel that way! so that now they become my friends! isn't it like that?
- a love? a friend will be sometimes be compared to love, because if you like or love the peson you want him to be your friend! and sometimes friend will fall into love! so is it love is what we call friend? are my friends love me? or they love me because they are my friends or i'm their friend because they love me? maybe yes maybe not!
- a pet? some people would make a friend to the person who is to be trusted of and loyal! just like your pet, once your pet feels comfortable with you and they feel your care,as a return they will love you ,a love of a real and loyal friend! so in that case, if they are my pets and i care and love them as i care and love my self, did/do they cherish my care and love, as a return for me? are they become loyal to me? maybe some of them are yes or maybe few are no! so can i call them my friends just like my pets?
- a money? there are some people also that they will only make friend to those who are rich or lots of money! they are a kind of friends that are fun of gimik, party, or "maikpagsosyal!"..... sometimes they will be judged either good or a bad friends! they are sometimes called as "golden leech"....if you know what does golden leech mean?! So in that case, are these kind of golden leech friends are like the friends i have now? but as observed, i cannot consider myself as rich..not even once! even i have a friends who are fun of gimik..but still they become good friends of mine!
- and the last but not the least! a shoulder and hands? they are the friends who are so passionate and have affection for their friends. they will feel the same way of what you have felt. they are the friends to be your"crying shoulder" a hands you may hold on to, in times of difficulty,circumstances,trials and problems! they are real, always by your side, they are the friends that you can call when you are alone in the dark! So are these qualities of friends being mentioned above, are the qualities possess by my friends i have now? can they be my shoulder and hands? can i lean on their shoulder whenever im tired,dppress, and crying!
> some can be true, some can be denied, some can be in vain, some can be falsified, and some can be accepted! whatever you call for it, whatever you name to it whatever meaning you give to it, friends are anybody! friends are everywhere! friends can be love, they can be our worst enemy even, and friends will be your souls............. no matter what happens,no matter who are they......
it only matters that............................ THEY ARE MY SO-CALLED FRIENDS!!! whenever!forever!
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